A Gay Red Bear's Tumblr Account. Country boy living in the big city of Chicago. I'm looking for other average to masculine friends in Chicago.

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He is such a nerd! #seriously!

So, the bf is at work, and I’m home alone….

For those wanting to hear my devious plans, I’m sorry to let you down, I don’t have any. I miss my bf, when he is at work. This year, he has to work the overnight shift. It sucks. For five years we were basically always together, sleeping every night together, and now at least four nights of the week, I sleep alone. I hate sleeping without him, I can’t sleep well without him. Thankfully we are 1/3 of the way through his mandatory year of overnight. 

I imagine being with a lot of the guys, I talk to on Grindr, Growler, Scruff and Jack’d, I swap pics and semi make plans, but then I drop them. I’m passed the stage in my life, where I want to have so many sexual partners. I don’t really want to sleep with them. I want to remain faithful to my bf. He has given me permission to play with others, but I don’t really want that. I want friends, but I am shy. I would like to go out, but I don’t want to make him jealous. I’ve been to a couple of bars, and I do what I always do, I go to the corner and just freeze up.

So, what am I doing? Watching a couple gay movies on Netflix, yeah they are usually cheesy, but I sort of envy some of them. I mean, being a shy country boy, I wish I was more like them. Instead of being in the corner, I would rather be the person dancing or walking up to a hottie and talking with them. 

“@castleharding: @takenredguy Then we should definitely go out for drinks sometime.” » First ones on me. :D

My dad always told me, “One Aw shit! wipes out a hundred At A Boy’s.”

Thanks for all the #FF love guys!